Introductory Remarks to Audience
(Philippians 2:1, 2, 5) If there is any encouragement in
Christ, if there is any consolation of love, if there is any fellowship of the Spirit, if
any affection and compassion, make ___________ and ___________ more complete by being of
the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in spirit, intent on one purpose. Have
this attitude among yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus.
Father gives Bride away in traditional manner
Bridal party move up to altar
_________ and __________, our God of love has established
marriage as the symbol of Christ's perfect relationship to His body, the church. We have
come here to bring you as one before Him.
Pastor to Groom -- God has ordained the man as the
spiritual head, as the responsible provider, and as the initiator of love in this human
relationship. By His enablement, your strength must be (Bride's) protection, your
character her boast and pride, and you must so live that she will find in you the haven
for which the heart of a woman truly longs.
Pastor to Bride -- It is God's purpose that you be a
loving wife, that you respond to (Groom's) love in tenderness with a deep sense of
understanding, through a great faith in Christ who brought you together. It is His desire
that you have that inner beauty that never fades; that eternal youth that is found in
holding fast the things that never age.
Pastor to Bride and Groom -- Christian marriage is not
living merely for each other; it is two uniting and joining hands to serve God. Seek first
the kingdom of God and His righteousness and He will add all other things to you.
___________ and ___________, you stand before us as
individuals redeemed through Jesus Christ. (Personalize) Is it your purpose to establish a
home that is truly Christ centered, where the Word of God is read and obeyed; a home that
is welded together by prayer, in which the Holy Spirit is your constant guide?
Bride and Groom answer -- It is.
Pastor -- And now that your hearts are joined together in
love, will you please join your right hands.
Pastor to Groom -- ___________ this woman whom you hold by
the hand is to be your wife. She has given you one of the most sacred things under heaven:
a woman's life and a woman's love. You may bring her great joy or cause her great sorrow.
It is not what you bring her in a material way that will make happiness - riches without
love are nothing. The gift without the giver is bare. The practice of those virtues as a
husband that you have shown as a lover will keep her heart won to your heart. Do you vow
here, as you have promised ___________ that you will be true and loyal, patient in
sickness, comforting in sorrow, and forsaking all others, keep yourself only unto her for
so long as you both shall live?
Groom: I will.
Pastor to Bride -- ___________, this man whom you hold by
the right hand is to be your husband. On your life, your love, and devotion he will lean
for strength and inspiration. He is going to look to you for encouragement, for
cheerfulness and confidence. May your life and your love be the inspiration that will
constantly lead him to greater dependence upon our Lord Jesus Christ. Do you vow here, as
you have promised ___________ Groom, that you will be loyal in adversity, ministering to
him in affliction, comforting him in sorrow, and forsaking all others, keep yourself only
to him for so long as you both shall live?
Bride -- I will.
Pastor -- You may share your vows with each other.
Groom to Bride -- Give Ring
Bride to Groom -- Give Ring.
Scripture and Brief Comments
Light large candle
Organ music begins